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Doing Daddy things

May was a month of a lot of big projects for me, and if you don’t follow my Twitter already, I’m super excited to share a couple of my proudest achievements. Both of these releases were really moments in my career where I felt like I had truly “made it”. I hope you guys enjoy!

Butt view of a leather pegging strap-on harness
Oh look, it’s my butt!

Over the past half year, I’ve been working with Extreme Restraints to help design a strap-on harness, and after quite a bit of back and forth, I’m proud to present the Daddy An Li Leather Strap-On Harness! A black leather thigh-strap-type harness with silver rivets, pelvic padding, and three differently-sized O-rings to accommodate a wide variety of dildoes.

I’ve personally worn this harness during play and have found it extremely flattering on my derriere — it seems to cup my ass in all the right ways. And by golly, don’t the photographs show it!

If you buy one, take photographs of yourself wearing it, and let me know what you think. I always welcome feedback.

Oh look, boobies!

A couple months ago, I had the most fantastic shoot with I’ve always wanted to shoot for Kink — at what, some might say, was a highly inappropriate age — but unfortunately the time I entered the professional Domination field was also when Men in Pain had just come to an end. Imagine my surprise when Brittany Andrews reached out to me to ask to shoot for a Men in Pain revival pilot!

Some of you might know that Men in Pain was’s original Femdom site, preceding Divine Bitches. The former was a bit more classic Femdom whereas the latter focused around conventional sex. I don’t think it’s hard to guess which one I personally leaned towards…

After eight years of being a ProDomme, shooting for a site that I had spent way too many inappropriate hours perusing has finally come to fruition. I hope you enjoy Ferocious Femdom: An Li and Marcelo on Men in Pain as much as I enjoyed shooting it!

Some of you might know that I’m in the process of building out a dungeon from the ground up. As you may very well expect, this process is going to be a financially large endeavor, and any and all contributions are welcome. You can send tributes via SpankPay, SextPanther, OnlyFans, IWantClips, or crypto, or any and all of my online wallets if you already have access to them, Amazon GC, Home Depot or Lowes GC, or straight cash mailed to me if you’re feeling old-school. If you’d like to send any toys or furniture my way, I’m always open to adding onto my toy stash as well!

Finally, July is my birthday month. What have you done to make my 32nd birthday even better than the last? You can bet that my Amazon Wishlist will be populated in the next coming weeks to prepare for adulation, and for those a little more straight-forward, I always appreciate cold, hard cash. Remember: a Daddy never forgets a good deed!

I will be unavailable for most of July, so please refrain from sending any perishables during this time, as much as I love all the vegan chocolate you bitches have been doling out to me this past year.

And with all of those updates out of the way, I’m off to disappear for a bit more, only to appear next time in a blaze of glory. Bye bitches!