FemDom with Extreme Restraints

Hey sluts!

Last month, I shot a show and podcast with Extreme Restraints for their educational series, XR University. I personally own quite a few items from Extreme Restraints and being invited to be on the show was a complete honor for me. Needless to say, I was beyond stoked when I was invited by Aiden Starr, a friend from EWS play parties and a Dominatrix all-star that many of you may be familiar with with her numerous accolades, videos, and director credits.

The series is part kinky lifestyle education, part interview, and part playtime. I got to try out a lot of toys I was interested in, including a new chastity device that I have quickly become fond of, and I also talked extensively about my experience within FemDom.

The show typically tends to be more male Top/female bottom, so for this episode, they wanted to focus on the FemDom dynamic within my life. Aiden and Ian Rath asked me to bring a sub of my choosing, and I brought in my slave partner, gimpy, naturally. He and I had a fun time talking about how FemDom and kink fit within our personal life, and I think a lot of you would find it elucidating.

Many of us who find our kinks online oftentimes have this ideal of what BDSM should look like in a lifestyle relationship. I personally wanted a high protocol D/s within my personal life, but I quickly found out that it was not feasible for me both mentally and physically. Real life has too many constraints that can quickly put a damper on fantasy expectations, and in turn, I’ve had to re-adjust the role it can play within my life. This may look differently for you, but for me, as somebody in an ongoing romantic D/s, I’ve found that how we express our kinks throughout the years has changed into something mellower. Aiden, Ian, and I chat extensively in this episode about our own personal takes on how kink and BDSM fit within our personal lives.

Serious kink education aside, there are also two play scenes to entice you to watch the video. 😉

You can find the whole video here, and if your preferred medium is audio, you can find it all as a podcast here.

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