As with any other formal situation, I expect you to be courteous and attentive. Before asking me any basic questions (as in whether or not I partake in certain activities), thoroughly read this website. This is for your benefit as well – having a careful read of this site will give you a better idea of who I am and what type of session I may partake in or conduct, as well as start you off on a good first impression upon initial contact. Be prepared to send a deposit to finalize our booking.

IMPORTANT: Have you read my FAQ?

For session requests, please use the following form. Fill out all the required fields to submit.

Name (required):

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Level of experience (# years/sessions) (required)

What do you identify as? (required)
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Preferred Mistress attire (required):
Whatever you want!LingerieLeatherLatexStreet clothesWorkout/Athletic outfitsBusiness attireOther

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What was your best session and why? (required)

What was your worst session and why? (required)

Hard limits and medical concerns, if any (required):

Last couple of Dominatrices you have sessioned with – who, what, where, when (required):

Where did you find me? (required)

Would you like to be added to my newsletter for travel and major updates? Sent 3-6x a year. (required)

Do you allow photography or short video recording of the playtime for my social media? (Faces and distinguishing features obscured, and you may revoke this after viewing the content) (required)

Have you filled out every box? Nearly every field is required in order to submit the form.

You may expect a response to my contact form within 48h on a standard, non-holiday weekday, therefore please schedule your form submission accordingly. All form submissions sent on weekends are not guaranteed to be responded to until the upcoming weekday. I typically check my last emails on the weekday at 8PM on Friday – anything following is subject to my whims.

If you have not received a response from me within a week, please check your spam box. Occasionally my emails get sent there, however I try to always respond back to a thoughtfully inputted form submission.

I may also be reached via email at submit(at)youremybit(dot)ch, or via phone at either Niteflirt for calls (1-800-863-5478 ext: 10251003) or SextPanther for texts. With phone, I typically only accept calls between 10AM – 10PM (for the most part, Los Angeles time), and texts as late as 2AM (depending on my mood). Anything before or after that will only be responded to via email. If you have a session in mind, I suggest you contact me at least 24H in advance – I rarely accommodate same day appointments. Additionally, all weekend appointments must be booked with deposit sent by 8PM Friday latest. I rarely check my emails on weekends as, surprise surprise, I am a human with a normal social life!

I highly recommend using SextPanther for any specific questions you’d like to ask me that do not fall within my contact form, and Niteflirt for getting comfortable with me before our session (if you are the nervous type). Both modes of communication are quick and easy ways of communicating with me outside of email. Furthermore, I enjoy a sub who spends their time researching me well – dropping a text or call beforehand shows me that you are excited for our session, which in turn makes me more excited to play with you!

Deposits required for all first-time subs. I use Giftrocket for domestic clients. Please check my FAQ for my deposit policy.

Upon receiving my contact information, understand that it is only for appointments and professional correspondences – any spam, pointless messages, and glaringly unintelligent messages will be disregarded. First impressions matter, so make it count. When messaging me, please introduce yourself and clearly state why you’re interested in contacting me. My contact form and email are not chatrooms nor penpal correspondences – so I expect messages to be conducted in a professional manner, and in turn, I will do the same. Those that abuse this will not receive a response.

My contact form is for session application only. If you desire to have a casual conversation or get your kinky fix, you may do so by giving me a call on Niteflirt or shooting me a text on SextPanther. I love chatting with kinky admirers!