Contact

As with any other formal situation, I expect you to be courteous and attentive. Before asking me any basic questions (as in whether or not I partake in certain activities), thoroughly read this website. This is for your benefit as well – having a careful read of this site will give you a better idea of who I am and what type of session I may partake in or conduct, as well as start you off on a good first impression upon initial contact. Be prepared to send a deposit to finalize our booking.

IMPORTANT: Have you read my FAQ?

For session requests, please use the following form. I do not have any other first point of contact outside of this contact form. Fill out all the required fields to submit.

If you have not received a response to your form, please check your spam. Occasionally my responses get sent there. If you have not received a response within a week, feel free to fill it out again. I may have overlooked it. (Alternatively, if you filled this out lackadaisically, I may have entirely ignored it. First impressions matter.)

If your request is on the more urgent side of things (or I haven’t responded because my life can be quite busy), your best bet is to send me a text via SextPanther to politely inquire if I have seen your application form. 

(If you are a Pro-Domme asking about references, media production company asking for interviews, or anybody else, this is also your only option for a first point of contact. If we have seen each other before, please feel free to text me or DM me to check my email. And if we’ve seen each other before, but you’ve deleted my phone number or email for privacy reasons – well then tough luck! You will have to be like everybody else and start over with my contact form. ;))

Name (required):

Gender + sexuality + pronouns – vanilla pronouns, not kinky pronouns please! (required):

Age (required):

Email (required):

Please submit your email again (required):

Telephone:

Desired city (required):

Length of desired session (required):

Requested dates and times (required):

Level of experience (# years/sessions) (required)

Why do you want to see a Dominatrix? (required)

What do you identify as? (required)
SubmissiveSlaveMasochistFetishistBondage bottomPetBaby/ChildBratOtherI have no idea ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Preferred Mistress attire (required):
Whatever you want!LingerieLeatherLatexStreet clothesWorkout/Athletic outfitsBusiness attireSpecific roleplayOther

Session Interests (required):

Do you have any specific words that excite you? (required):

What was your best session and why? (required)

What was your worst session and why? (required)

Hard limits and medical concerns. Hard limits include specific phrases, activities, places I should not touch, etc. Medical concerns include major surgeries, allergies, joint replacements or concerns, medical PTSD, heart issues, nervous system issues, blood ailments, head trauma, brain illnesses, medications, you get the idea. The more thorough you are on this, the happier we will both be in the session! (required):

Last couple of Dominatrices you have sessioned with – please include *who*, what, where, when (required):

Do you have any specific limitations with calling or texting you after the session? (required):

Where did you find me? (required)

Would you like to be added to my newsletter for travel and major updates? Sent 3-6x a year. (required)

Do I have your permission to take photos or short video recordings of the playtime for my social media? (Faces and distinguishing features obscured, and you may revoke this after viewing the content) (required)


Have you filled out every box? Nearly every field is required in order to submit the form.


If you are using this form to ask if the person you’ve been talking to online is actually me, the answer is ALWAYS NO. In fact, I have an entire blog post dedicated to online scammers. Please do not send them money.


You may expect a response to my contact form within 48h on a standard, non-holiday weekday, therefore please schedule your form submission accordingly. All form submissions sent on weekends are not guaranteed to be responded to until the upcoming weekday. I typically check my last emails on the weekday at 8PM on Friday – anything following is subject to my whims.

If you have not received a response from me within a week, please check your spam box. Occasionally my emails get sent there, however I try to always respond back to a thoughtfully inputted form submission.


I may also be reached via email at submit(at)youremybit(dot)ch, or via phone at either Niteflirt for calls (1-800-863-5478 ext: 10251003) or SextPanther for texts. With phone, I typically only accept calls between 10AM – 10PM (for the most part, Los Angeles time), and texts as late as 2AM (depending on my mood). Anything before or after that will only be responded to via email. If you have a session in mind, I suggest you contact me at least 24H in advance – I rarely accommodate same day appointments. Additionally, all weekend appointments must be booked with deposit sent by 8PM Friday latest. I rarely check my emails on weekends as, surprise surprise, I am a human with a normal social life!

I highly recommend using SextPanther for any specific questions you’d like to ask me that do not fall within my contact form, and Niteflirt for getting comfortable with me before our session (if you are the nervous type). Both modes of communication are quick and easy ways of communicating with me outside of email. Furthermore, I enjoy a sub who spends their time researching me well – dropping a text or call beforehand shows me that you are excited for our session, which in turn makes me more excited to play with you!

Deposits required for all first-time subs. I use DeliveryCode and assorted payment apps for domestic clients. Please check my FAQ for my deposit policy.

Upon receiving my contact information, understand that it is only for appointments and professional correspondences – any spam, pointless messages, and glaringly unintelligent messages will be disregarded. First impressions matter, so make it count. When messaging me, please introduce yourself and clearly state why you’re interested in contacting me. My contact form and email are not chatrooms nor penpal correspondences – so I expect messages to be conducted in a professional manner, and in turn, I will do the same. Those that abuse this will not receive a response.

My contact form is for session application only. If you desire to have a casual conversation or get your kinky fix, you may do so by giving me a call on Niteflirt or shooting me a text on SextPanther. I love chatting with kinky admirers!