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NYC, PDX, Wicked Eden, DomCon, Doubles · ProDomme An Li

NYC, PDX, Wicked Eden, DomCon, and Doubles

Hello, bitches! Lots of updates for you on this most fateful of blog days.

Visiting NYC July 15-16, 2023

First thing’s first. I’m taking a somewhat-last-minute trip to NYC next month, and I have an extremely limited daytime availability. I’m accepting appointments from 9AM-4PM on Saturday and Sunday, and as usual, I am prioritizing longer scenes.

It’s been about five years since I’ve visited NYC, so now is your time to book in your time slots. I expect these times to get filled up extremely quickly given how many inquiries I get for NYC on a weekly basis. (But seriously, why do so many of you guys think I live on the East Coast?)

Weekend touring tributes apply. Last-minute bookings will not be accepted. Doubles and triples highly encouraged!

Distractingly hot photo to remind you of how quickly my NYC time will be booked up

Visiting Portland August 22-26

I’ll also be traveling to Portland for the first time ever! I’ll be taking sessions at Sub Rosa PDX and visiting the homies Natasha Strange, Viola Parker, and Domina Elara (and would be ever-so-pleased if you requested sessions with any of these wonderful Mistresses).

I rarely travel to the Pacific Northwest and am excited to be back in the area for the first time in six years or so. Show Daddy a good time and go book your session now before it’s too late.

And now, some fun updates!


Wicked Eden Grand Opening

I had a blast visiting Columbus, Ohio last weekend for the official opening party of Wicked Eden by Autonomy Project. I’m so, so, so proud of my good friend Alexandra Snow for the enormous project she undertook in putting it all together — from renovating a huge space into a shooting and events studio to starting a nonprofit to support the LGBTQIA+ and sex worker community.

Here are some pics of what you missed.

People in the pics include me, Ryan Omen, Mz. Kim, Lady Vi, Empress Ming, Helena Locke, Viola Parker, Natasha Strange, and a massive horde of kinky folx you’re just going to need to decipher in your own time!

Some highlights of my trip were:

  • Catching up with some of my favorite ProDommes + meeting several new ones
  • Teaching a whole bunch of friends how to do a couple of whipcracking tricks
  • Dressing like the leather Daddy I am and wearing a split-leg leather apron to the party (aka ass-less short-alls)
  • Doubling with Alexandra Snow in a scene and helping to collar her submissive. Congrats, squish!

Don’t worry, there will be more events in the future. And you can expect that I’ll be back to Columbus again as soon as I can.


DomCon LA 2023

I haven’t partaken in DomCon in four years and was excited to return this year. This year was a bit of a whirlwind — I tried to cram in as many classes as I could while catching up with old and new friends, and on top of that, I organized a group whip class with the whip instructor that I have personally been playing with. And of course, is it truly DomCon if I don’t walk away with new gear? I picked up a new signal whip by Peter Jack (more whips!!!), heel locks for my crossdressers, and a leather head sling for suspension bondage.

Isobel Devi stayed with me for the weekend, and needless to say, we had a blast together. The days culminated in us doubling together in a very fun rubber gimp bondage scene with her good toy.

Isobel Devi and I in matching latex and shiny platform boots using our rubber gimp as human furniture

I’m loving all the doubles I’ve done this year and am itching for more. There’s something so magical and devious about the types of scenes only a double session can create — I’ve never found myself in more hilariously creative situations than the ones I’ve done with my friends. Lots of laughs to be had at the sub’s expense (although sometimes they’re laughing with us as well 😉 ). With that in mind, if there’s somebody you’ve fantasized about me doubling with, please do inquire. You’d be surprised by how many friends I have…


Andrea Rosu from August 12-13

And with that in mind, my friend Andrea Rosu will be visiting Los Angeles from the 12th to 13th, and it would behoove you to book a double with us. Can you imagine how much ass and muscle exists between the two of us? Your silly brain might implode from all that power.

I mean, my god, look at her!

Go ahead…do it. I know you want to. You trapped between two muscle Dommes. What’s there to lose except all sense of reality?


And that’s it for now! I have a pretty big surprise coming your way in the very near future and am excited to debut it soon. Keep your eyes peeled…

xx your favorite Daddy