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Hello Daddy, I wanted to give you some feedback from the wonderful session we had. Words can only describe so much of what happened and how I feel about it, but I’ll do my best to convey my thoughts and emotions.

Honestly it was amazing, I was expecting going in to be in pain but you brought it to a whole new level. But it was more than just the ballbusting, the environment, your attitude and the pacing was masterful. You brought me to a level I could not have achieved on my own, You had me laughing and giggling along with you with every hit!

Going on to more specific aspects of the session. The predicament bondage was an intense start but it was a good indicator on what was to come. Being stretched out in just about every direction, whilst the hoist keeps my balls nice and taunt made me feel truly at your mercy the rest of the session. I need to work on my flexibility so you can have more to work with next time.

Afterwards lying down with my limbs chained down and everything exposed, I became excited at how vulnerable I was. The clamps were painful, but having them constantly rearranged due to “Mr. slip dick” made it really feel like torture. But I also had no idea just how painful tying up balls could be. Then untying and retrying them unleashed even more blissful pain, having you make me howl and having my balls stretched and poked was eye opening to say the least. All whilst you fingered and plugged my ass, a sensation that was quite different from my little experience. I wanted to try more anal stuff but time didn’t allow as Ball kicks were next

I hope you enjoyed being the first to kick my balls, I certainly did. The ball kicking was just about my favorite part of the whole session. All the tenderizing that came before just enhanced this part. Even your warm up kicks hurt a lot, but even as they got harder and harder I loved every last one. I hope the kicks didn’t hurt your feet too much.

Then the kicks from behind, what a lovely position to have your balls kicked. Being able to see you take aim with your feet and making me jump just about anytime there was a long pause made each kick mysteriously painful. I think you nailed each kick in this position, I wish I could have taken more.

Then the finale, the alternating cock and dick slap. At this point I was mostly done, you had thrashed my balls and made me giggle in pain for so long I wasn’t sure I would be able to handle 10 more followed by an intense squeezing. But I’m sure glad I did, it felt like a big accomplishment that I was able to push through those hard slaps. And better yet I was rewarded with the hardest squeeze my balls have ever felt.

All in all I loved the friendly environment, it was like we were exploring ballbusting together. Seeing what I could take and pushing my limits all with a smile on your face made the whole session absolutely fantastic.

I think I finally understand why it is I love ballbusting so much, it’s not for the pain or the feeling of submissiveness, which don’t get me wrong, are great feelings in their own right. But, I enjoy ballbusting most when it is done by someone who really enjoys themselves doing it, someone who has fun doing it and shows it. Watching you kick my balls with a smile on your face and laughing made it all much more enjoyable. The fact that I fit into that chastity cage in the end was a miracle. 10/10 would book again.

Thanks again for the amazing experience


Hi there. S here.

Just a quick note to say again that it was totally thrilling meeting you and playing with you. I so appreciate all the time you took – over email and in person – to understand my kinks, interests, and limits. And the actual session was amazing. The moment when I finally truly surrendered and begged you to keep fucking me was, for me, completely organic, humiliating, and insanely pleasurable all at the same time. A lifetime of memories in a single 90 minute block of time – soon to be repeated, I hope.

Until then, be well. 


Hi An Li,

Thank you for the amazing session yesterday! I’m happily enjoying the post-session soreness in my butt, back, and chest. I’m still processing everything that happened, but here are some post session thoughts:

I loved the purple cuffs in the beginning and was really into your nails running across my upper back after you had flogged me a few times– I’m super sensitive across the base of my neck down to my upper back and loved the sensation.

I was really excited to be tied up and was thrilled to be forced onto my tippy toes as you attached the spreader bar to the ankle cuffs and loved feeling the sensation of the rope in my mouth. The suspense that built up as you slowly brought the violet wand up my leg into the more sensitive parts of my inner thighs and into my genitals was exhilarating. The prickling sensation of the wand was both nerve wracking and exciting.

Moving to the face down position on the floor was even better and I loved the sensation of confinement from the tightness of the bonds around my legs and my arms. I really wanted to keep the strap that went over my mouth, but kept letting it slip as I was getting spanked. I really appreciate you readjusting the tie after it kept falling down.

When you brought out the tens unit, the feeling of helplessness was intensified even more. I really enjoyed the contractions created by the tens unit! It was really strange to experience at first, but it definitely grew on me as the session went on. I loved kissing, licking, and sucking on the heel of your boots and was ecstatic when you left the stilettos in my mouth as you went back to torturing me with the violet wand.

Getting zapped on my sensitive bits as you increased the intensity of the tens unit and forced my legs to stay open with the pressure of your bare feet was electrifying (pun intended xD). I loved every moment of it and the memory of it came back so strongly that even as I was trying to jerk off post session I kept flinching, expecting to feel a zap or spank each time the pleasure built up.

Your use of spit throughout the whole session made me feel increasingly powerless and I loved feeling the sensation of the saliva lingering on my face and in my hands– especially when you told me to close my hands and hold onto it as I was getting spanked and smacked by the heart shaped paddle that you dipped into the spit on my hands and proceeded to smack me with after letting me know it would hurt more with the spit on it. That paddle hurt like helllllll, but I wanted to take more and more as you mixed in pleasure with the intense bouts of pain.

I really enjoyed crawling toward you after being on the floor and helping you put on your boots– I definitely need more practice learning how boots work xD, but I loved getting to see them and experience them. I dropped super deep into sub space when I felt the weight of your boots on my chest as I was lying underneath you and still have sore spots on my chest where they were– I loved being your foot stool and am honestly super curious what it would look like to have a session with more human furniture play– especially combined with bondage or the sensation of weight in ways that challenge the shapes my body can hold.

I especially appreciated your attentiveness throughout the whole session. I recently realized that I’m a survivor and often struggle with intimacy– especially sexual intimacy (even when I’m by myself). Your responsiveness and consideration of my interests, needs, and boundaries, as well as the periodic check ins throughout the scene supported my sense of safety with you throughout the whole session and has helped me better understand how to somantically hold the complexities of my own trauma with care, connection, and intimacy. Thank you for holding space for me. While I have made a lot of progress in being able to connect with other East Asians, I still struggle with opening up, so being able to connect with you as a Taiwanese person was really healing for me and I truly appreciate every chance I get to connect with you.

With much gratitude,


Dear Mistress An Li, S 5.27.21Thank you for such an outstanding slice of life filled with mystery, adventure, p&p, and horror.

Legs were shaky until late last night and woke up today with pain in unexpected places and even in places I didn’t know existed! Tapped the right nipple and it’s still sensitive 24 hours later for some reason! Super loved the hot, extremely tight inescapable finale. So intense. So blissful. The upward angled, upside down dangling was scary too, and I was teetering on the edge for a while, and nearly tapped out. The relief was incredible after all those positions.

Appreciate the pictures and am happy you had some enjoyment playing together too. Safe travels and good luck on your journey in the Bay Area.

p.s. So very glad to see a kind and nurturing side too. Don’t worry, I won’t tell anybody.


12.27.2019 – double with Elise Graves

Finally caught my breath…

-getting my balls tied, you showing me them turning purple
-whenever you smiled and acted “sympathetic”
-talking about popping my balls, castration, etc.
-really just everything you said, totally amazing. you got right in my head and seemed super “real” 😀
-At the beginning, when I was on the ground and you squeezed super hard, and I swear I could feel your fingers moving inside my balls. I know that’s some literotica medically-unsound nonsense but it felt AMAZING
– really squeezing is just my favorite i think.
– and slapping and punching
– also i can’t believe i didn’t mention this but the classic “your hands on my shoulders, you knee me in the balls while standing”. i forgot how much i love that

-wish i could’ve gotten hard/cum, i know that’s the least important part of the session but i was hoping.
-using the safeword irresonsibly. i know better to trust you now, i wish i’d gotten over it during the session. I do think some of the swinging might’ve been too hard, but I might change my mind on even that once the pain goes away.
-also saying “no limits” on the form LMAO
-not asking you more questions and talking after. i was so charged up i could barely think (and i’m shy in person, a lot more than online). I wish i’d asked about what other ballbusting stuff that you haven’t taped, about the torsion you caused (for totally educational purposes…), just like…idk, talked to you. i could barely think after, definitely something I want to work on in future sessions.

Stuff I learned:
-I can’t cum while on my knees :/ laying down, sitting, standing are ok. (not that i get any say in this! just what i learned about myself)
-When I’ve busted myself I’ve gone hilariously lightly -squeezing, kicking, punching are great! tying is terrifying but you made it fun, and really did a lot more than I thought was physically possible. but oh my lord the swinging was painful. not as much as the last kick though >_<
-You’re back in town at the end of January… really considering booking again if possible, but realistically I want to wait until my balls get back to a vaguely round shape before making that decision. Kinda in a tender state of mind ATM.

i know you probably won’t respond to a wall of text after i’m done paying but writing all this up makes it easier for me to remember, and I never want to forget this. Thanks so much!



I want to Thank You and Mistress Lucy Khan for a wonderful morning on December 11th, 2019. I was fortunate enough to serve two dominating and beautiful Mistresses who guided me through a full toilet session along with slut training. It was great to know that I felt safe while at the same time was enjoying being used and abused and to do what was told of me. I do feel bad that I failed to fully consume your feces, and next time I will have to do a forced consumption, so I do not spill it out on your carpet. I could never be worthy of you nor Mistress Khan but I hope I will be with you two again soon, in near future, and have round two!!!

Yours Truly,

Idiotic E
12.14.2019 – double session with Mistress Lucy Khan

Lovely Ladies,

Thank You both for the amazing night last week. The marks are sadly fading – may be gone by tomorrow. But they lasted almost a week and were painful and uncomfortable for a good four days. My cock especially had beautiful multi-colored stripes (purple bruising, red welts, black scabs) that provided such a wonderful vivid reminder of our time.

An Li – You have clearly risen to the top for me, not just in number of sessions but more importantly in depth of understanding of my kinks. You brutalize me like no other. I grow more in awe with each session. Now You can add to that introducing me to a friend with whom I was able to develop an instant connection! You asked when I was prone on the floor at Your whim who was the most sadistic pair I’ve served and I said it was You Two. Now with the benefit of distance and time I confirm that it is indeed, and it’s not close.


There were many moments that stood out. The ball chariot course was the most elaborate and difficult I’ve experienced and was just so fun. The simultaneous cock pinchy device and hard back whipping was a dream. I’m very curious about revisiting that horrible cock tie thing that I immediately safeworded out of


But the jumping jacks and burpees stood out as one of those unique moments where I truly appreciated the creative genius of my Dommes unfolding in real time. I’ve obviously experienced ball weights; I’ve fantasized and seen videos of forced exercise (though always found such videos unsatisfying); I’ve seen and fantasized about “starting the count over” in many scenarios; I’ve actually never even fantasized about tiny clothespins INSIDE my cock; getting my cock whipped is one of my favorite standbys. But to experience ALL those elements combined in such a cruel way was crazy and something I had never imagined. I was living what could have been that ultimate fantasy video I reference when I’m describing a scenario I want to a Domme. I felt so helpless and broken that I was somehow relieved that I accidentally bumped An Li in the face (sorry!) leading to a punishment of 21(?) awful whips to the cock – which ended up being in my top 3 cock whippings of all time but somehow a welcome relief? WOW.

The other especially memorable part was the ridiculous sequence of ballbusting – rubber mallet, kicking, stomping, and Bettie just squeezing and twisting me to “Mercy!” multiple times. And the expression on Her face as She did this, backing me into corners or chasing me across the floor was crazy cool! Indeed the stuff of nightmares!


An Li – I am regretful and sorry for not providing You the kicks You were craving. You did a great job of patiently pushing me to a few more at a time but I obviously ruined the finale by safewording […]

Did I mention that You are also incredibly funny and a joy to talk to? “I’ve hated dicks for a long time”; “What else is he going to say?” (in reference to me complimenting the corset); interrogating me for passwords; a conversation with my balls via boot phone; and that “joke“ that only You Two found funny: punching me in the balls. (I feel like I’m missing at least one more really good one but can’t remember it.) LMFAO!

Thanks again for the wonderful time and I look forward to serving again. I’m so lucky You exist.

12.10.2019 – double session with Mistress Bettie Bondage


What an interesting week! To first recap our session, that was super intense. In a session, I usually have a few episodes, totaling maybe 20 minutes or so, of “oh shit – I wish I didn’t need this level of pain to get off because this is awful.” Last week I felt that way for literally half the session. And yet as You know I’ll keep coming back for more. That moment of “almost feeling sorry” for me on kick #2 was so telling of how sadistic You really are – it felt horrific and the fact that You could deliver that and still want to move on the next 13 made me admire You even more. #6,#8, and #13 were similarly awful. I don’t know if these stand out to You or You are blissfully unaware. At least #13 probably stands out because that was when I puked. Pushing me to those final two after that was crazy and cool – though I suspect You actually had a moment of weakness at the end as #15 was mercifully light. The ball kicking is the part that really stands out – my balls have remained black for a week and the bruising spread to my cock and lower stomach in subsequent days. There’s still one area that remains pretty severe – the area that the steel toes were connecting with on the direct hits. The soreness and aching has also kept You on my mind almost non-stop. I can’t stop thinking about how much You hurt me and how much I appreciate You for this. That’s not to say that the ball whipping before that, and the playing with needles in my cock after were not also painful and intense – both were up there in my catalog of painful experiences but they were swamped by that kicking! Speaking of, your “Feel like a woman” tweet was so genius – maybe Your most popular tweet since the great dick nailing. I was simultaneously so happy to be involved in it and so jealous to not be tagged in such a popular tweet! Sorry just the whiny attention whore side of me coming out 😀.



Hello An Li,

Thank you for taking the time to see me. You are truly amazing. I thought I knew what to expect but was really taken aback by just how beautiful you are! I’ll say that again, because I’m not often, actually, never have been stunned by how beautiful a woman is, but YOU are truly beautiful! There were several times during our session, when I looked up at you, and was stunned by just how beautiful you are. I wonder if you knew….

Your feet are perfect. That can not be displayed on a website, but, my god! They are perfect! I wish I had been able to concentrate better, to worship them as they deserve.

I also noticed your legs, and amazing ass. Holy shit! You don’t know, but I displayed EXCEPTIONAL self control and did not caress your amazing ass! WOW!!!! What I’m trying to say is, top to bottom, you are BEAUTIFUL!

I also noticed your attention to detail regarding my session wish list. Your work out attire was perfect! Your ability to role play, ad lib, and be creative is top notch! I was truly impressed, and happy. It’s obvious you have a great mind to go along with that amazing body, and beautiful face!

My nuts are still extremely sore, and swollen, but I have this vision of you leaning over me, and how incredibly beautiful you are, and I’m more than a little bit happy.

I hope we can play again soon. I would like to get to know you better.



Hi An Li,

Hope all is going well! I’ve been thinking about our session a lot, but was having trouble writing a follow up email. I suspect this is because seeing you forced me to see myself. For the longest time, I’ve been carrying a lot of trauma and tension anytime I’m around east Asian folks (multiplied a hundred fold for anyone who speaks any Chinese dialect). I started going to therapy to face this, but my therapist does not speak any Chinese dialect, so I’ve felt limited in terms of how far I could explore my trauma and fears. Reaching out to you was the culmination of dealing with years of repression about who I am, and I’m really glad and grateful that I had the opportunity to play with you.

Hearing Mandarin used in session was really overwhelming for me–in a good way. I’ve been facing away from my family for so long that Mandarin is becoming increasingly harder for me to remember and speak well, but while I have a lot of trauma tied to growing up as a trans person in a not so accepting family, I still feel a draw toward home and for me, home includes growing up Chinese in a predominantly Chinese community. I think part of the reason I reached out to you specifically was a desperation to connect with that side of me while being fully connected to all of my identities (femme/queer/trans/kinky). I’m proud of myself for taking the risk of being fully open, but I am also appreciative of the space you made for me because I don’t know if I would have gotten the same type of healing experience in any other way.

I am especially thankful for the amount of care you put in into reading me. I was pushing myself to communicate when things were uncomfortable in a bad way, and while I definitely think I still have more work to do in that respect, I’m grateful that you were watching and checking in the whole time. Some highlights of the session for me were that it felt delightfully queer (I liked calling you daddy and that I simultaneously felt safe enough to be called girl), learning that I liked getting beat up, having you rub your spit into me, getting face slapped, being blindfolded, kissing your boots, getting spanked, having my hair pulled– pretty much everything actually. I thoroughly enjoyed the whole session and hope I get the chance to session with you again!

All the best,


Hi Daddy,

I’ve started writing this multiple times.

Physical inventory:

Feet – mmmm. A delicious tenderness walking today. Definitely some sensitivity and tightness. I enjoyed my walk today 😉

Balls – some tenderness on left side. Other than that, there isn’t much soreness.

Cock – mmm – very tender skin with some abrasions and light brusing.

Other – arms and shoulders tender. upper abs are quite sore.

Now for the fun stuff:

Thank you for an amazing time. It always takes me some time to process. A perfect example is that it took me until today to realize that the abrasions on my cock were actually from your boots! Having you standing on my cock like that was amazing. I have to say that any disappoint I had was not with your or the activities. It was with myself. Though I do realize that it has been a long time since I have played to the level. I was worried during and even after that your perception of me was one of overselling what I was into.

Holy cow, the bastinado. It took me a bit to be able to relax into (sounds weird talking about relaxing while being hurt) However, once I was able to just absorb, I floated with the pain and allowed the tide to flow. When you first said 50 strokes, my mind’s response was “Fuck, I can’t take that.” However, you nailed it.

The cbt work was exquisite. I was frustrated with my own body. I’m not sure what was going on with my left side.


I definitely want to push harder on the piss. Smell and taste didn’t bother me. However, when it hit my stomach, I should have been able to fight through it.

I am sure that there are things that I am forgetting. I hope that you enjoyed yourself and that if there is anything you were disappointed that you would let me know. I definitely would like to meet again and explore further, harder, longer.



Dearest Mistress,

So while it was still fresh on my mind, I wanted to share with you some thoughts from our session and afterwards. First of all thank you, and as I said, I’ll be back. Every time I’m in LA, I’ll be contacting you. I’d like to explore more and more over time.

I’m sore not where you’d expected (abs), I guess because I’ve been doing a lot of ab work the past few months to get ready for this week. But I’m sore in my butt cheeks, I guess I clenched. A lot. Also my shoulders and then my armpits are sore from straining against the restraints. But the most delicious kind of sore. I’m an athlete, so I love the feeling of muscle soreness and its indication that you’ve really done something. But here, this soreness is the best I’ve ever felt. My nipples are very sore, but in the most wonderful way. I actually hope they stay that way for a few more days. I feel them every time I move in a bra, or even without one. Even wearing nothing, I still feel them when I move. I actually took a photo to share with you earlier today, and I’ll share it with you via twitter. They are much more erect than usual.

I’d wanted to feel all the sensations, and you gave me that. I loved every minute and was sad when it was over. I now know why dogs lean against our legs. That comfort, security, etc. I felt it as I leaned against you. The feeling of your body against me, on me, whatever, was incredibly sensual, and yet so comforting. Thank you for allowing me to touch you as I could, that meant the world.

The catharsis of it was exactly what I hoped it would be. I allowed myself to really let go, which is what I’d hoped to be able to do. I would have to say this was the most special experience of my 51 years of life, honestly. To be able to not care what anyone thought, or what my responsibilities are, or literally anything else, was amazing. Thank you for the time and thought you put into our session, and I look very forward to the next one, and the one after that, and the one after that, etc.

I cannot tell you the treasure this was to me, and the treasure you are to me. Thank you for not liking computer programming. Yours is a gift and you’ve used it beautifully.

Until next time,


Dear An Li,

I have had some time to reflect upon our encounter yesterday, and am still in awe of the masterful way you and L wove together so many elements of her fantasy wishes. It began with you two establishing your dominance, and leaving me at your mercy, for longer than I thought I could bear. Then, the drops of hot wax foreshadowed the other liquid components of my submission. I then was made to drink spit foreshadowing other tastings that would cum later. The two of you took turns having me at your mercy, ending almost to the point of no return over and over again. Then it was time for L to have pleasure before any reward could be offered to me. When it was my turn, I was left in suspense wondering if my time was finally, um, at hand. The end, if it came, was left to the two of you. I needed to show my worth with a successful countdown, and for your joint delight and laughter and to my relief and humiliation I delivered — and you captured it all. Then, for the first time ever, every drop was returned, again, for your delight and laughter. Then there were final golden drops to complete the afternoon — soothing, sprinkling, warm, keeping me in my place beneath you — again for your delight and laughter. We parted once again, as friends, two pleased with having the upper hand and one surprisingly grateful for having served as desired.

An Li,

You are a real treasure, a very beautiful person in a field where sensitivity to the unique qualities of an individual is, I think, quite rare. There may be a severe side to you at times (which I did not see) but deep down you are kind and joyful.

Thank you.



I just wanted to reiterate how much I enjoyed spending time with you this past Thursday. You truly are incredible. You have it all, beauty, intelligence, great personality, confidence. You were able to push me exactly how I hoped. I will cherish the experience forever.


Hello Mistress. I just wanted to say thank you so much for our session, it was great! At first when I met you I was really nervous meeting someone new but you were awesome! I loved how you had me in the hogtie and gagged. My nipples and balls feel so good yet so sore. But my favorite part was being under your beautiful ass and loved how you called me your bitch. It was fun doing what you wanted me to and not having a choice! It was awesome looking up at you while you had your way. I loved how you were always talking too.

[…] I’ll look out for you again when you come back to Boston.

Thanks again!


Due to a combination of better knowledge of the pro-Domme scene and more disposable income, I’ve recently started branching out to see a number of highly skilled, gorgeous and well known Mistresses. Mistress An Li has risen to the top of my list quickly and convincingly. Knowing She exists has really raised my standards.

This is due to several factors, but I think it starts with true and pure sadism. Its completely clear when I’m sessioning with Her that She’s having a damn good time at my expense. I’m big into CBT and back whipping and She takes to those activities with remarkable enthusiasm, with laughter and bemusement that can’t be faked.

Second she is highly skilled. Impeccable aim with the whip. Incredible toolset of bondage and CBT activities. Remarkably efficient transitions from one torture to the next – it’s usually my own pain tolerance that’s slowing things down. And Uncanny variety and unpredictability in sessions. Most of the time I don’t know exactly what’s coming as She strings me up for the next torment, but I am always confident it’s going to be painful and, paradoxically, a huge a turn on. That last statement is not something to be taken for granted. I often find myself second guessing Dommes or wishing She’d do a little more of this or less of that. With Mistress An Li it has been complete trust since the first ten minutes of our first session.

While one can find the above two attributes in a select few Dommes, Mistress An Li’s communication skills and intelligence really set Her apart. I could already detect this from the material on Her web site and our first email exchanges, but it has become crystal clear during our sessions. She is unique in Her ability to slip in and out of Her role as my Mistress and Tormentor versus someone I can talk with about BDSM, sometimes transitioning within the space of one second. There is no better example than the time we were having an interesting discussion about slaves’ perspectives on ballbusting (and I thought the session was essentially over) when She swooped in for a huge sucker punch to my balls that had me writhing on the floor for the next two minutes. We’ve talked about our childhood BDSM fantasies and experiences, developments in the pro-Domme scene, and just how crazy and wonderful it is that there are people like me who crave pain meted out by Beautiful Women, and Beautiful Women like Her who equally enjoy meting it out.

I’m so appreciative of Her.


Miss An li,

I apologize for not sending this sooner .

i have been out of the country for the last month and a half..during that time i have had much time to think about the session we had together at the end of march.

i feel that i must tell You that You far exceeded my expectations you are perfection.

Being under you control was absolutely what a groveling little 3 hole gurl needed. You used me like the lowly slut i yearn to be so effectively. The sounding You gave me was the best…..clearly your well versed in this practice. next time I hope you go BIGGER. A girl can dream can’t she?

So thank you for helping me unleash my inner sub slut. You were my first.. 🍒


Hi Mistress An Li,

Sorry it’s taken so long for me to write.

On the whole I did really enjoy our (well my) session x I asked you to push my limits and you did whilst NEVER taking it too far.

The first thing I’ll say is you are so amazingly beautiful in real life, definitely more than your pictures would suggest (and they made you look stunning), I thought this from the moment you opened the door. You were right, I couldn’t take my eyes off you so when you covered my eyes it was an amazing sort of torture.

For me it was really intense, very different from anything I’ve ever experienced before! Maybe because it was in a proper playspace, maybe because of what you did to me?!?!

I’m pretty quiet during sessions but enjoyed how you talked to me throughout.

I’m not really sure what happened to me at the beginning, […] You really calmed me down after feeling VERY light headed in that first bondage position which incidentally I really loved before I had a moment!!!

I loved being dressed up and made to be your play thing, I would have loved to have continued that had I not gone wonky.

You certainly pushed my limits which is what I asked for but at no time did I feel unsafe, I always felt like whilst you were 100% in charge, you completely respected what I could take and what I couldn’t. I guess that is one of the things I was worried about before meeting you.


[…] Once you freed my arms even though….., you made me feel comfortable yet under your complete command.

The electricity I really liked after you changed from that first implement.

What I really loved was the spitting and when I was made to worship your feet and body. That was amazing and I’ve thought about that many times since. It goes without saying that I loved the spanking though may have liked a bit more.

The most intense moments which I loved the most were when you came so close to me and looked deep into my eyes before making me drink your spit or slapping my face, that was amazing, cathartic and the highlight of our time.

As for the foot and body worship, that was sooo good.

All in all, the session was amazing, you catered to my likes, you pushed my limits and made me try new things whilst always making me feel just the right side of too much.

Thank you, our time together was just what I wanted, I’d 100% visit you again and will next time I’m in town x



Mistress An Li!

Completely awestruck! Utterly amazed! Profoundly grateful!

You are absolutely amazing, Goddess!

As i kneel before the computer to write these woefully insufficient words to describe my gratitude and joy, i keep replaying each moment with You, and i long – ache – to thank and praise You. So grateful that You allowed me to gaze upon Your beauty – perfection from head to toe. So thankful that You coated me with Your spit, blessing my entire body – making me meaningful from that which You casually, playfully, or forcefully discard. So grateful that You made sure all my senses were consumed by Your spit. my eyes remain crusty, my every breath smells You, my ears somewhat plugged longs for the sound of Your voice, my body sticky, my lips, mouth, and tongue sore from the gag yet moistened by You and eager to sing Your praises.

And You were beyond generous to allow me to clean up the toys and to transform me into a walking trash can with the dirty paper towels after the session. Plus, of course, You allowed me to chauffeur You to the session and then to lunch with Your Friend. How grateful i feel – and also sorry that i was not of any further use to You both.

Hope You are enjoying a delightful visit and tasty lunch – and You know of my adoration and gratitude. You are truly amazing, completely awe-inspiring, Goddess. Thank YOU very, very, very much!

Your grateful spittoon


Hello Lovely Mistress An Li,

I’ve been meaning to thank you for our sesion on the 14th of this month and am finally getting to it.

You were beyond amazing. you’d be surprised that even among the most well known there are few that truly embrace domination and punishment the way you do. I really want to thank you for not letting me back out of getting my balls beat by you. It is the fear, pain and suspense that bring a slave to life. You were absolutely masterful. You and Goddess T** are the only ones I have met so far that truly understand the art and mental aspects of ball busting.

Even though a full meal wasn’t in the cards, I truly revel in the joy I could see that you take in using a slave as your toilet. Of course I will need to return for another opportunity at being fed a full meal. I don’t think I even need to request a no mercy, forced full consumption session. At least I’m fairly certain of the no mercy part.

Anyway it is a dream come true to be brutally used by such a stunningly beautiful Woman such as yourself. And the joy you show in your work makes it absolutely amazing.

Thank you so very much.

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I just wanted to say a final thank you for the session on Saturday. The bastinado was incredibly intense. I was able to take a lot more bastinado punishment than I would have imagined. And I was not expecting to have my soles whipped with such a long single tail. But I loved watching you as you cracked that whip on my soles. So cruel. I was able to walk like normal at work today. But with each step I was reminded of how cruel you were to my feet.

I want to apologize though for not being a good full toilet session. I know you said you like having a guy eat your shit. Thinking about having your shit pass thru the body of your slave. Next time I need to keep my mouth open like a good toilet. Not some honey bucket with the seat down. And yes I would do a full toilet session again. So humiliating. But I liked seeing how much you enjoyed getting to shit on me.

But great session. Only wish I could have had more time to lick, suck, and massage your delicious feet. Will have to submit at your feet again some time.

Thanks, and enjoy the rest of your Seattle vacation.


I know you don’t want to discuss your “hidden secret” plans, and that just perfect. Your actions speak to me. When you said that “… the end of the year..” you were determined to fist me, that tells me enough. Thank you . Also this last session showed me …… you are willing to go deep with me … ( and of course I don’t mean physically). I am grateful for that and your skills which includes your compassion. I wasn’t expecting that you would want to and be able to work with me on the deep levels that only some of those in your profession work with –which, in my opinon, and from my reading, has been the intention for a few thousand years. I am really very grateful. And you are serious about your work in the most joyful way — I don’t know what else to say but thanks. And you are very gentle with how you handle my resistance — you know how to relate with me. I hope that you get as much out of our working together as I do.


You are South-Philly-Tough!

Our recent session was intense and thrilling. You are so creative and genuine, i love Your mind and words. Your treatment was fierce, but delivered skillfully and with empathy and care, I’m so grateful to have met You and to be in s/D relationship with You!


I look forward to our next encounter with great desire and anticipation.



I wanted to write a quick thank you note, not so sure I was making sentences after the session last night. That was an amazing scene you created, I haven’t felt that “broken” in quite a long time and to achieve that on a first meeting is astonishing. I could run down the list of what was great, but really there wasn’t a moment I can think of where I would say I wish it went different. All I wanted was to look up at you and see you smile back in approvement.

I don’t know if you have some sort of notification list of when you travel, but I would love the opportunity to see you again during a future trip.

Thank you so, so much for last night. I didn’t know how much I was in need of that.



Highly recommend Mistress An Li, especially for someone new to the dominatrix scene. The first thing that struck me about Mistress Li is her professionalism and attention to detail, which is something I really appreciate as a professional myself. All my questions were answered, everything was prompt and above board, and the execution of the session itself felt very upscale, safe and sanitary. You can tell she takes great pride in providing a wonderful experience.

As far as what took place, well couldn’t be happier. Mistress Li addressed everything we had discussed with a great attitude and a gleam in her eye. She has wonderful, dangerous eyes that left me dripping the entire session. I had some personal goals of things which I had never experienced with a partner. Although my body didn’t want to give in at first, Mistress Li took the time and made it submit after an extended effort. As she forced me open my body instantly shuddered and I was reduced to a quivering mess, now completely in her control.

Thank you Mistress Li.


Mistress An Li,

Thank you for today. You reminded me who i am and why i enjoy serving in general, and now You in particular. i felt safe to explore masochism and slavery in your very capable hands. Your energy was amazing throughout our time and connecting our gazes sincerely drew you within me. i am proud of the marks i am wearing today. They will fade over time but the fond memories will not.


You have a beautiful smile, inviting lips, a magnificent derriere and a devious mind. You are total package.



Hi Mistress An Li,

Just wanted to thank you for the session we had in DC a few weeks ago. I have never been as humiliated and degraded in my whole life as when you had me tied down and literally used me as your toilet. The contrast between being unattainably close to a beautiful Asian woman, and what I was actually receiving in my mouth, was both torturous and lovely at the same time. Thank you for using me and I hope that you will visit DC again soon.



Hi Mistress An Li,

Thanks for the super awesome time yesterday. It’s definitely one of the best sessions that I’ve had in years!


Enjoy the rest of your trip, be well, and definitely be sure to come back so that we get to experience round two!!



As a humiliation freak, I have been enjoying Mistress An Li’s clips for months and they stirred me into finally arranging a session with this Asian dynamo. Setting it up was easy. The Mistress was accessible and communicative, first through email then via phone. I dislike being predisposed of a session because expectations can bring disappointment but short of bad chemistry, I just knew it was going to be good. The exchanges gave me the impression of a very bright, intuitive, genuine Domme who puts herself completely into her work.

A couple of short days after initial contact, I was at a high end dungeon in the arts district of downtown LA with the Mistress. She is very attractive with a luscious, curvy figure, highlighted by a world class derriere. I am an ass lover and Mistress An Li’s is absolutely exquisite. Her manner is efficient, confident, in control which was really promising. I had detailed my interests in emails – smothering, face slapping, spitting, bullying, verbal humiliation – so there wasn’t the need for a long conversation. She inquired about my limits both physical and emotional. I told Her I prefer to relinquish control and put my trust into her judgment which brought a wicked little grin to her face and a snappy, “Good!”

A safe word was provided, nonetheless, then it started. All of the above were addressed and what is so refreshing is how Mistress An Li prosecuted my fetishes on Her terms. She wasn’t simply going through the motions but it felt like she was exploiting my desires for her purposes, with fluidity, crispness and spontaneity. That’s a huge turn on. I have been sessioning with professional Mistresses for 30 years and have become somewhat jaded. Way back when, I thrived on the adrenaline of being pushed to the edge of uncertainty which hasn’t happened in years. It did that night. Mistress An Li actually sparked that delicious submissive fear that has eluded me in sessions for years and she knew just how far to push. This Mistress is the most talented face slapper who’s impact I have ever had the privilege of receiving. The result speaks for itself:

Mistress An Li is a sexy, brilliant dominatrix, an ‘old school’ no-nonsense Mistress who could be very addictive

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I just wanted to express my sincere appreciation for an incredible call last night. I have never experienced a cyber session before and I must tell you that I am still thinking about how perfect it all was. First of all, you are an amzing beauty. However, your beauty is clearly equaled by your intellect. You knew exactly what to say to get totally into my head! You used all the key findom buzz words whch made me twitch with excitement. Thank you Princess!


Hi An Li,

I just wanted to thank you for one of the most fun sessions I have ever had. Everything flowed along perfectly. You made me feel very vulnerable to the point where I could do nothing about it. I just loved being in your control. I loved it when you tied up my cock and balls and tugging on them whenever you felt like it. The heels you wore looked perfect on you. I just loved the thin pointed heel. And the thong you wore really accentuate your nice legs and ass. Thank you so much for coming to norcal to give me the chance to session with you. I hope I was a good slave to you……



Good morning Mistress. Writing to say how much I enjoyed serving you. Thank you. It was one of the best sessions I’ve ever had, you were amazing, very skillful and even better looking in person than in your gorgeous photos. If I could afford to I would serve you often, in the meantime I am saving up…

Submissively Yours.