Last night was Eyes Wide Shut. It’s a Femdom play party I’ve been playing at for four years now, give or take. When I first went independent, one of the first things…
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A scat play primer, or why some people like to eat shit
I shit on a lot of people. And I mean that in a very literal sort of sense. I take off my panties, I squat over the slave (usually their mouth), and…
I’m a ballbusting bully ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I’ve had this client on Niteflirt lately that I’ve been having a riot chatting with about ballbusting. By chatting, I mostly mean bullying. “Mattias” has called me multiple times in the past…
Celebrate Chinese New Year with Asian Supremacy!
A Femdom Chinese New Years with An Li, Damiana Chi, Lucy Khan, and Jezebel Chi! Chinese New Year is coming up in February, and what better way to ring in the Lunar…
On handjobs.
Let’s make this short and sweet: I don’t do them. Please note that my personal preferences are not everybody else’s. A Mistress can and will do as she pleases, and…
Impersonators, Scammers, and General Tomfoolery
I’ve received yet another message today about how someone fell for a scammer. A profile imitating me on yet another adult/kinky dating site had lured $500 for a deposit scam out of the hapless…
Europe Summer 2018: London, Amsterdam, Bruges
Hello subbies, slaves, and sluts in Europe (and elsewhere)! A little bit late updating on my end, but I’m quite excited about my upcoming Europe tour this summer! I’ll be visiting London,…
DC/NYC travels – Mistress An Li returns to the East Coast for spring 2018!
Hello slaves, submissives, and sluts! It’s been nearly a whole year since I’ve been back to the East Coast. Have you missed me? I will be making my usual rounds to Washington…
Can I be your slave? AKA the various types of bottoms in BDSM
TLDR: No, and also, you probably aren’t actually a slave. (Before you get too excited about the title, this is not a blog post about derrieres.) Here’s the set of recent tweets…
Now introducing…domination specials for practice dummies!
I know, I know. I have always said that domination is a luxury and that I will never do special rates for anybody or any activity. I still believe it, however…there are…